Well in my case,yes I do all the work while this other person just comes home and gets to relax. I wish I can get to relax but it is not in my cards for that. I love to care for my family but you know sometimes you need some type of help, any help for that matter. why wait to be asked you should just do it. You ladies that are married and have kids know what it is like to be the women that wears the pants all the time. I love my soon to be husband but sometimes I wish he could just help me out sometimes. Yes sometimes he does help me out but it is only when he wants something out of it. He knows that I work all day and still come home to take care of him and the kids.
My everyday life consists of waking up the kids and getting them ready for school. I drop off the baby at daycare and the other at school and then Iam on my way to work. I work 8 hrs a day like everyone else. At my lunch hour I call daycare to make sure the baby is doing o.k. Iam done with work by 5 so guess what I have to do is pick up the baby at daycare and then pick up my oldest at her father's house. In case you are wondering, my two daughters have different fathers. I just didn't want to confuse you. When I get to home I get dinner ready. I make sure the girls showered and that my oldest has done her homework. By the time food is ready he is walking through the door. It is nice to come home after a long day of work and see that dinner is ready for you and I cook everyday. So at the end of the night I also put my girls to sleep. As you can I work alot too.
I do understand that he works more than me outside of the home but I think I deserve some break sometimes. I love the things I do, I do not mind at all it is just that I sometimes need to just relax. You are probably wondering when do I have time to do my homework well my girls are good so when Iam cooking or doing anything I get my homework, and I also do my assignments during the week at lunch or when the kids have gone to sleep and I also do my readings in the weekends. I just don't have time for my self but that's ok for now because at the end it all pays off.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Thursday, January 21, 2010
My Goals for this New Year
My goals for this new year are to be more helpful to others. I also want to attempt to go to chruch more often. I also want to be able to complete this year at BC so I can tranfer my credits to a universe next year. My accomplishment is to get my master's in speech pathology. I really want to work for a hospital one day. My wedding plans are going alittle slow right now because I planning to do good in school but Iam going to try my wedding dress this weekend. I guess I can say that everything is going as planned. I just got to make sure that I keep it up and don't get side tracked.
There are so many things we as people want to achieve in our lives. I think no matter what your situation is you can always manage to do it some way or other. Like Martin Luther King said one day "I Have a dream" and guess what his dream did come true. So we should achieve our goals and you can be surpised what we can accomplish as people. Just put your mind and heart to get and you can get there. There is no excuse for not wanting to do something. There is no such for the word "BUT".
There are so many things we as people want to achieve in our lives. I think no matter what your situation is you can always manage to do it some way or other. Like Martin Luther King said one day "I Have a dream" and guess what his dream did come true. So we should achieve our goals and you can be surpised what we can accomplish as people. Just put your mind and heart to get and you can get there. There is no excuse for not wanting to do something. There is no such for the word "BUT".
My Winter Break
My winter break was not out of the ordinary, the only thing that was different was that I had to go buy gifts for the universe and the kids were out of school for winter vacation. The other thing that was different was since there was alot of people on vacation and the kids being out there was less traffic. Besides that my life was pretty much the same. From monday thru friday I had to wake everyone in my household and get them ready for another day. My older daughter was very excited to be out of school. The kids are lucky, why can't the adults get a break too? I must say this year for the holidays, they all fell on the long weekend for me. I was off for 4 days so that was my mini vacation. I was happy that I was able to spend so much more time with my family. I loved all my gifts I got this year and the kid loved it too. I thank God that I was able to provide for the holidays because my fiance and I are trying to save money for the wedding.
I didn't take classes last semester, I was just trying to get my self ready for this term. So that was my winter break, you see there was nothing out of the ordinary for me.
I didn't take classes last semester, I was just trying to get my self ready for this term. So that was my winter break, you see there was nothing out of the ordinary for me.
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Yes life is what you make of it.
Yes we have choices in this life, we are the ones who say yes or no to what we make of it. We can make our day brighter just by helping eachother, even if its a smile or just letting someone in the lane. I know it makes me feel better when I know I can help someone.
I know that my choices in life have made me change alot. My life was very hard when I was growing up even in my adult years. There was things that I should never done but I wished someone could of informed me. I learned things the hard way. As I got older and had my first daughter at 19, I became more of a mother to my dauhgter but I still wanted to be young and explore. Let say at that age I wasn't ready to be a mom, but I tried my best to be one. As the years went the father of my daughter and I decide we need it to split up. It was just not working out. I went through alot with this man, but I was glad it was over. Then another chapter started not for a good one, fighting with child support to trying to be a mom but I really just wanted to be free. I got into my first accident. One day on my way home from work I fell asleep on the wheel at a turn lane but it was green I was just waiting for the truck to pass by. At that moment someone pulls behind me and honks his horn so I wake up and press on my gas and at that same moment the truck was passing by. I had ran into the two cargo truck head on. I was lucky because I bounced off him and did a 360 and faced the canel. I screamed at the guy who had spooked me to get me out of the car, but his friend said out loud that "don't take her out of the car ,her leg is broken". When he said that I looked down at my leg and screamed. My femur was broken and my ankle was facing inwards. To make story short I had ASAP surgery and I was out of work for 3 months. That situation made me change to whole new person. I left the partying and the unnecssary things. All that matter was spending time with my daughter and being there for her. Now my next story is going to wow you.
A few years have gone by and life is going great. I do everything with my daughter I teach her how to be a young lady and to be nice to others. I have been with this new man for over 4 years. Everything was going great I had a new job making more money, I gotten my degree in ma and xray, awhile ago but never used it. One day going to work at the job that I was going to be a month old. Going on I-75 to royal palm I got off in this exit to go to work. I had a ford explore sport,it was raining and the roads were very wet. As I was getting off at the exit, I lost control of my SUV to prevent my car hitting another car, I ran on a median and that made my suv flip over, I forgot to where my seat belt so I flew out the window, I don't remeber at all only certain things and noise. Well I saw my body from heaven, I looked down and wondered why I was there but as realized I was there I had waken and saw only people running around. That was the only thing that I remeber. To story short because it is pretty long one, I heard later that they had to give me CPR, because I was a gone again. I have a big scar that almost goes all the way around my head. I broke my shoulder in five places and my hip in four places. You can call me the iron woman. So from that Iam a brand new woman. My ways are totally different, Iam more into GOD, my family and all the people around me.
I know that my choices in life have made me change alot. My life was very hard when I was growing up even in my adult years. There was things that I should never done but I wished someone could of informed me. I learned things the hard way. As I got older and had my first daughter at 19, I became more of a mother to my dauhgter but I still wanted to be young and explore. Let say at that age I wasn't ready to be a mom, but I tried my best to be one. As the years went the father of my daughter and I decide we need it to split up. It was just not working out. I went through alot with this man, but I was glad it was over. Then another chapter started not for a good one, fighting with child support to trying to be a mom but I really just wanted to be free. I got into my first accident. One day on my way home from work I fell asleep on the wheel at a turn lane but it was green I was just waiting for the truck to pass by. At that moment someone pulls behind me and honks his horn so I wake up and press on my gas and at that same moment the truck was passing by. I had ran into the two cargo truck head on. I was lucky because I bounced off him and did a 360 and faced the canel. I screamed at the guy who had spooked me to get me out of the car, but his friend said out loud that "don't take her out of the car ,her leg is broken". When he said that I looked down at my leg and screamed. My femur was broken and my ankle was facing inwards. To make story short I had ASAP surgery and I was out of work for 3 months. That situation made me change to whole new person. I left the partying and the unnecssary things. All that matter was spending time with my daughter and being there for her. Now my next story is going to wow you.
A few years have gone by and life is going great. I do everything with my daughter I teach her how to be a young lady and to be nice to others. I have been with this new man for over 4 years. Everything was going great I had a new job making more money, I gotten my degree in ma and xray, awhile ago but never used it. One day going to work at the job that I was going to be a month old. Going on I-75 to royal palm I got off in this exit to go to work. I had a ford explore sport,it was raining and the roads were very wet. As I was getting off at the exit, I lost control of my SUV to prevent my car hitting another car, I ran on a median and that made my suv flip over, I forgot to where my seat belt so I flew out the window, I don't remeber at all only certain things and noise. Well I saw my body from heaven, I looked down and wondered why I was there but as realized I was there I had waken and saw only people running around. That was the only thing that I remeber. To story short because it is pretty long one, I heard later that they had to give me CPR, because I was a gone again. I have a big scar that almost goes all the way around my head. I broke my shoulder in five places and my hip in four places. You can call me the iron woman. So from that Iam a brand new woman. My ways are totally different, Iam more into GOD, my family and all the people around me.
Thursday, January 14, 2010
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